How Can You Deal with Resentment While Caregiving?

By Susan Myer, RN, BSN, CCRN, CDP | March 24, 2017 | Comments Off on How Can You Deal with Resentment While Caregiving?
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Elder Care in Morris County NJ: How Can You Deal with Resentment While Caregiving?

Resentment can create a rift between you and your elderly loved one. It can also cause you to have to deal with more stress than you should be as a family caregiver. These tips can help.

Determine What’s Causing the Resentment for You

Resentment can show up for a variety of different reasons. It can also show up regardless of how long you’ve been a caregiver. It’s important for you to understand what is causing you to feel resentment. You might need more help and feel resentful because you’re doing it all on your own. Or you might be feeling resentful for having had to give up something of your own in order to care for your loved one.

Try Talking to the People Involved

If there are other people involved in the situation, try speaking to them about your resentment and other feelings that you’re experiencing. It’s possible that they’re not aware of the toll that caregiving is taking on you. It’s also possible, however, that nothing changes after that conversation.

Take Some Time Away

Maybe it’s time for you to take some time away from caregiving and regroup a bit. If you’ve been a caregiver for a long time, it might well be past time for you to take some time away. Contact some experienced elderly care providers and rest assured that your loved one is in good hands while you’re away.

Join a Support Group

Some family caregivers resist joining a support group because they don’t have time to spend in going to meetings. The reality is that you can meet caregivers just like yourself who help you to work through situations you’re experiencing as a caregiver. Having that lifeline to reach out to can make a big difference in how you’re able to manage your feelings.

Find Someone to Talk To

Sometimes resentments have built up over years in relation to situations that never got resolved with your elderly loved one. It’s also possible that the situation can’t be resolved how you’d like it to be resolved. Finding a therapist or a counselor can be just the right tool to bring you some form of resolution.

Take stock regularly of how you’re feeling. The more in touch you are with your own feelings, the easier it will be to spot feelings like resentment when they’re cropping up.

If you or an aging loved one are considering hiring professional elder care in Morris County, NJ, please talk to the caring staff at Generations Home Health Care today. Providing Home Care in Somerset, Essex, Union, Morris and Hunterdon Counties. Call us today at (908) 290-0691 or (973) 241-4534.

Susan Myer, RN, BSN, CCRN, CDP
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